The Meaning of Luke 14:26 Explained

Luke 14:26

KJV: If any man come to me, and hate not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.

YLT: 'If any one doth come unto me, and doth not hate his own father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brothers, and sisters, and yet even his own life, he is not able to be my disciple;

Darby: If any man come to me, and shall not hate his own father and mother, and wife, and children, and brothers, and sisters, yea, and his own life too, he cannot be my disciple;

ASV: If any man cometh unto me, and hateth not his own father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.

KJV Reverse Interlinear

If any  [man] come  to  me,  and  hate  not  his  father,  and  mother,  and  wife,  and  children,  and  brethren,  and  sisters,  yea,  and  his own  life  also,  he cannot  be  my  disciple. 

What does Luke 14:26 Mean?

Study Notes

hate
All terms which define the emotions or affections are comparative. Natural affection is to be, as compared with the believer's devotedness to Christ, as if it were hate. See Matthew 12:47-50 where Christ illustrates this principle in His own person. But in the Lord the natural affections are sanctified and lifted to the level of the divine love (cf); John 19:26 ; John 19:27 ; Ephesians 5:25-28 .

Context Summary

Luke 14:25-35 - The Cost Of Discipleship
Here we have our Lord's use of the winnowing-fan. Amid the teeming crowds He knew that there were many light and superficial souls who had not realized the cost involved in discipleship. Mark the thrice-repeated words-cannot be my disciple.
Our love must be greater than the ties of family affection, Luke 14:26; must be greater than our love for our own way, which must be nailed to the Cross, Luke 14:27; must be greater than our love of possessions and property, Luke 14:33. Christ has done more than any other teacher to cement the relationships of human love, but He always asks that they should be subordinated to the claims of God. Oh, for the love that Paul had! See Philippians 3:8.
What a comfort it is to realize that God counted the cost before He set about the task of redemption, whether of a world or of us as individuals. He knew all that it would cost, and surely He did not begin what He cannot complete! [source]

Chapter Summary: Luke 14

1  Jesus heals the dropsy on the Sabbath;
7  teaches humility;
12  to feast the poor;
15  under the parable of the great supper,
23  shows how worldly minded men shall be shut out of heaven
25  Those who will be his disciples, to bear their cross must make their accounts beforehand,
31  lest with shame they revolt from him afterward;
34  and become altogether unprofitable, like salt that has lost its flavor

Greek Commentary for Luke 14:26

Hateth not [ου μισει]
An old and very strong verb μισεω — miseō to hate, detest. The orientals use strong language where cooler spirits would speak of preference or indifference. But even so Jesus does not here mean that one must hate his father or mother of necessity or as such, for Matthew 15:4 proves the opposite. It is only where the element of choice comes in (cf. Matthew 6:24) as it sometimes does, when father or mother opposes Christ. Then one must not hesitate. The language here is more sharply put than in Matthew 10:37. The ου — ou here coalesces with the verb μισει — misei in this conditional clause of the first class determined as fulfilled. It is the language of exaggerated contrast, it is true, but it must not be watered down till the point is gone. In mentioning “and wife” Jesus has really made a comment on the excuse given in Luke 14:20 (I married a wife and so I am not able to come). [source]
And his own life also [ετι τε και την πσυχην εαυτου]
Note τε και — te kai both - and. “The τε — te (B L) binds all the particulars into one bundle of renuncianda ” (Bruce). Note this same triple group of conjunctions (ετι τε και — eti te kai) in Acts 21:28, “And moreover also,” “even going as far as his own life.” Martyrdom should be an ever-present possibility to the Christian, not to be courted, but not to be shunned. Love for Christ takes precedence “over even the elemental instinct of self-preservation” (Ragg). [source]

Reverse Greek Commentary Search for Luke 14:26

Luke 14:33 All that he hath [πασιν τοις εαυτου υπαρχουσιν]
Dative case, says good-bye to all his property, “all his own belongings” (neuter plural participle used as substantive) as named in Luke 14:26. This verse gives the principle in the two parables of the rash builder and of the rash king. The minor details do not matter. The spirit of self-sacrifice is the point. [source]
John 12:25 Loseth it [απολλυει αυτην]
The second paradox. Present active indicative of απολλυω — apolluō This great saying was spoken at various times as in Mark 8:35 (Matthew 16:25; Luke 9:24) and Mark 10:39 (Luke 17:33). See those passages for discussion of πσυχη — psuchē (life or soul). For “he that hateth his life” (ο μισων την πσυχην αυτου — ho misōn tēn psuchēn autou) see the sharp contrasts in Luke 14:26-35 where μισεω — miseō is used of father, mother, wife, children, brothers, sisters, as well as one‘s own life. Clearly μισεω — miseō means “hate” when the issue is between Christ and the dearest things of life as happens when the choice is between martyrdom and apostasy. In that case one keeps his soul for eternal life by losing his life (πσυχη — psuchē each time) here. That is the way to “guard” (πυλαχει — phulaxei) life by being true to Christ. This is the second paradox to show Christ‘s philosophy of life. [source]
Romans 9:13 Hated [ἐμίσησα]
The expression is intentionally strong as an expression of moral antipathy. Compare Matthew 6:24; Luke 14:26. No idea of malice is implied of course. [source]
Romans 9:13 But Esau I hated [τον δε Εσαυ εμισησα]
This language sounds a bit harsh to us. It is possible that the word μισεω — miseō did not always carry the full force of what we mean by “hate.” See Matthew 6:24 where these very verbs (μισεω — miseō and αγαπαω — agapaō) are contrasted. So also in Luke 14:26 about “hating” (μισεω — miseō) one‘s father and mother if coming between one and Christ. So in John 12:25 about “hating” one‘s life. There is no doubt about God‘s preference for Jacob and rejection of Esau, but in spite of Sanday and Headlam one hesitates to read into these words here the intense hatred that has always existed between the descendants of Jacob and of Esau. [source]
1 Timothy 5:4 Let them learn [μαντανετωσαν]
The children and grandchildren of a widow. Present active imperative third person plural of μαντανω — manthanō “Let them keep on learning.” First (πρωτον — prōton). Adverb, first before anything else. No “corban” business here. No acts of “piety” toward God will make up for impiety towards parents. To shew piety Present active infinitive with μαντανετωσαν — manthanetōsan and old verb, in N.T. only here and Acts 17:23. From ευσεβης — eusebēs “Their own household.” Filial piety is primary unless parents interfere with duty to Christ (Luke 14:26). To requite Present active infinitive of Αμοιβας — apodidōmi to give back, old and common verb (Romans 2:6), to keep on giving back. αμειβομαι — Amoibas (from τοις προγονοις — ameibomai to requite like for like) is old and common word, but here only in N.T. Their parents (προγονος — tois progonois). Dative case of old and common word προγινομαι — progonos (from αποδεκτον — proginomai to come before), “ancestor.” In N.T. only here and 2 Timothy 1:3. See note on 1 Timothy 2:3 for “acceptable” (apodekton). [source]
1 Timothy 5:4 To shew piety [ευσεβειν]
Present active infinitive with μαντανετωσαν — manthanetōsan and old verb, in N.T. only here and Acts 17:23. From ευσεβης — eusebēs “Their own household.” Filial piety is primary unless parents interfere with duty to Christ (Luke 14:26). To requite Present active infinitive of Αμοιβας — apodidōmi to give back, old and common verb (Romans 2:6), to keep on giving back. αμειβομαι — Amoibas (from τοις προγονοις — ameibomai to requite like for like) is old and common word, but here only in N.T. Their parents (προγονος — tois progonois). Dative case of old and common word προγινομαι — progonos (from αποδεκτον — proginomai to come before), “ancestor.” In N.T. only here and 2 Timothy 1:3. See note on 1 Timothy 2:3 for “acceptable” (apodekton). [source]
1 Timothy 5:4 Their own family [αμοιβας αποδιδοναι]
“Their own household.” Filial piety is primary unless parents interfere with duty to Christ (Luke 14:26). [source]
1 John 2:9 Hateth [μισῶν]
The sharp issue is maintained here as in Christ's words, “He that is not with me is against me” (Luke 11:23). Men fall into two classes, those who are in fellowship with God, and therefore walk in light and love, and those who are not in fellowship with God, and therefore walk in darkness and hatred. “A direct opposition,” says Bengel; where love is not, there is hatred. “The heart is not empty.” See John 3:20; John 7:7; John 15:18sqq.; John 17:14. The word hate is opposed both to the love of natural affection ( φιλεῖν ), and to the more discriminating sentiment - love founded on a just estimate ( ἀγαπᾶν ). For the former see John 12:25; John 15:18, John 15:19; compare Luke 14:26. For the latter, 1 John 3:14, 1 John 3:15; 1 John 4:20, Matthew 5:43; Matthew 6:24; Ephesians 5:28, Ephesians 5:29. “In the former case, hatred, which may become a moral duty, involves the subjection of an instinct. In the latter case it expresses a general determination of character” (Westcott). [source]

What do the individual words in Luke 14:26 mean?

If anyone comes to Me and not hates the father of himself the mother wife the children the brothers the sisters yes and even life of him he is able to be of Me disciple
Εἴ τις ἔρχεται πρός με καὶ οὐ μισεῖ τὸν πατέρα ἑαυτοῦ τὴν μητέρα γυναῖκα τὰ τέκνα τοὺς ἀδελφοὺς τὰς ἀδελφάς ἔτι τε καὶ ψυχὴν ἑαυτοῦ δύναται εἶναί μου μαθητής

τις  anyone 
Parse: Interrogative / Indefinite Pronoun, Nominative Masculine Singular
Root: τὶς  
Sense: a certain, a certain one.
ἔρχεται  comes 
Parse: Verb, Present Indicative Middle or Passive, 3rd Person Singular
Root: ἔρχομαι  
Sense: to come.
με  Me 
Parse: Personal / Possessive Pronoun, Accusative 1st Person Singular
Root: ἐγώ  
Sense: I, me, my.
μισεῖ  hates 
Parse: Verb, Present Indicative Active, 3rd Person Singular
Root: μισέω  
Sense: to hate, pursue with hatred, detest.
πατέρα  father 
Parse: Noun, Accusative Masculine Singular
Root: προπάτωρ 
Sense: generator or male ancestor.
ἑαυτοῦ  of  himself 
Parse: Reflexive Pronoun, Genitive Masculine 3rd Person Singular
Root: ἑαυτοῦ  
Sense: himself, herself, itself, themselves.
μητέρα  mother 
Parse: Noun, Accusative Feminine Singular
Root: μήτηρ  
Sense: a mother.
γυναῖκα  wife 
Parse: Noun, Accusative Feminine Singular
Root: γυνή  
Sense: a woman of any age, whether a virgin, or married, or a widow.
τέκνα  children 
Parse: Noun, Accusative Neuter Plural
Root: τέκνον  
Sense: offspring, children.
ἀδελφοὺς  brothers 
Parse: Noun, Accusative Masculine Plural
Root: ἀδελφός  
Sense: a brother, whether born of the same two parents or only of the same father or mother.
ἀδελφάς  sisters 
Parse: Noun, Accusative Feminine Plural
Root: ἀδελφή  
Sense: a full, own sister.
ἔτι  yes 
Parse: Adverb
Root: ἔτι  
Sense: yet, still.
καὶ  even 
Parse: Conjunction
Root: καί  
Sense: and, also, even, indeed, but.
ψυχὴν  life 
Parse: Noun, Accusative Feminine Singular
Root: ψυχή  
Sense: breath.
ἑαυτοῦ  of  him 
Parse: Reflexive Pronoun, Genitive Masculine 3rd Person Singular
Root: ἑαυτοῦ  
Sense: himself, herself, itself, themselves.
δύναται  he  is  able 
Parse: Verb, Present Indicative Middle or Passive, 3rd Person Singular
Root: δύναμαι  
Sense: to be able, have power whether by virtue of one’s own ability and resources, or of a state of mind, or through favourable circumstances, or by permission of law or custom.
εἶναί  to  be 
Parse: Verb, Present Infinitive Active
Root: εἰμί  
Sense: to be, to exist, to happen, to be present.
μου  of  Me 
Parse: Personal / Possessive Pronoun, Genitive 1st Person Singular
Root: ἐγώ  
Sense: I, me, my.
μαθητής  disciple 
Parse: Noun, Nominative Masculine Singular
Root: μαθητής  
Sense: a learner, pupil, disciple.