The Meaning of Matthew 9:15 Explained

Matthew 9:15

KJV: And Jesus said unto them, Can the children of the bridechamber mourn, as long as the bridegroom is with them? but the days will come, when the bridegroom shall be taken from them, and then shall they fast.

YLT: And Jesus said to them, 'Can the sons of the bride-chamber mourn, so long as the bridegroom is with them? but days shall come when the bridegroom may be taken from them, and then they shall fast.

Darby: And Jesus said to them, Can the sons of the bridechamber mourn so long as the bridegroom is with them? But days will come when the bridegroom will have been taken away from them, and then they will fast.

ASV: And Jesus said unto them, Can the sons of the bridechamber mourn, as long as the bridegroom is with them? but the days will come, when the bridegroom shall be taken away from them, and then will they fast.

KJV Reverse Interlinear

And  Jesus  said  unto them,  Can  the children  of the bridechamber  mourn,  as long as  the bridegroom  is  with  them?  but  the days  will come,  when  the bridegroom  shall be taken  from  them,  and  then  shall they fast. 

What does Matthew 9:15 Mean?

Verse Meaning

Jesus responded with three illustrations. John the Baptist had described himself as the "best man" and Jesus as the "bridegroom" ( John 3:29). Jesus extended John"s figure and described His disciples as the friends of the groom. They were so joyful that they could not fast because they were with Him. [1]
The Old Testament used the groom figure to describe God ( Psalm 45; Isaiah 54:5-6; Isaiah 62:4-5; Hosea 2:16-20). The Jews also used it of Messiah"s coming and the messianic banquet ( Matthew 22:2; Matthew 25:1; 2 Corinthians 11:2; Ephesians 5:23-32; Revelation 19:7; Revelation 19:9; Revelation 21:2). When Jesus applied this figure to Himself, He was claiming to be the Messiah, and He was claiming that the kingdom banquet was imminent.
"As the Physician, He came to bring spiritual health to sick sinners. As the Bridegroom, He came to give spiritual joy." [2]
When Jesus returned to heaven following His ascension, His friends did indeed fast ( Acts 13:3; Acts 14:23; Acts 27:9). This is the first hint that Jesus would be "taken away" (a violent and unwanted removal) from His disciples, but that theme will become more dominant soon (cf. Matthew 16:21).

Context Summary

Matthew 9:9-17 - The Friend Of Sinners
The name Levi indicates that Matthew sprang from a priestly line. He had lost all self-respect to become the abhorred instrument of the Roman government, collecting dues on the merchandise that crossed the lake. But our Lord sees veins of gold and precious gems in most unlikely places, and He detected the apostle and evangelist in this despised publican.
Wherever a man is found by Christ, He sets Himself to find others, and the Lord is willing to co-operate in any effort to bring others to know Him. He will sit with perfect grace among publicans and sinners, lifting them to His own pure and holy level. He is always to be found where there are sin-sick souls; and where hearts are famished for love and joy, He is with them as their bridegroom.
But the joy of Christ will make for itself its own impression. The ancient forms will not suffice. The old skin-bottle will not contain the ferment of the new wine. How wonderfully Christ could extract lessons from familiar objects! [source]

Chapter Summary: Matthew 9

1  Jesus heals a paralytic
9  calls Matthew from the receipt of custom;
10  eats with tax collectors and sinners;
14  defends his disciples for not fasting;
20  cures the sick woman;
23  raises Jairus' daughter from death;
27  gives sight to two blind men;
32  heals a mute man possessed of a demon;
36  and has compassion on the multitude

Greek Commentary for Matthew 9:15

The sons of the bride-chamber [οι υιοι του νυμπωνος]
It is a late Hebrew idiom for the wedding guests, “the friends of the bridegroom and all the sons of the bride-chamber” (Tos. Berak. ii. 10). Cf. John 3:29; see note on Mark 2:19. [source]

Reverse Greek Commentary Search for Matthew 9:15

Matthew 22:10 The wedding [ο γαμος]
But Westcott and Hort rightly read here ο νυμπων — ho numphōn marriage dining hall. The same word in Matthew 9:15 means the bridechamber. [source]
Luke 5:35 Then in those days [τοτε εν εκειναις ταις ημεραις]
Here Mark 2:20 has “then in that day,” and Matthew 9:15 only “then.” [source]
John 3:29 Friend of the bridegroom []
Or groomsman. The term is appropriate to Judaea, the groomsmen not being customary in Galilee. See Matthew 9:15, where the phrase children of the bridechamber is used. (See on Mark 2:19). In Judaea there were two groomsmen, one for the bridegroom, the other for his bride. Before marriage they acted as intermediaries between the couple; at the wedding they offered gifts, waited upon the bride and bridegroom, and attended them to the bridal chamber. It was the duty of the friend of the bridegroom to present him to his bride, after marriage to maintain proper terms between the parties, and especially to defend the bride's good fame. The Rabbinical writings speak of Moses as the friend of the bridegroom who leads out the bride to meet Jehovah at Sinai (Exodus 19:17); and describe Michael and Gabriel as acting as the friends of the bridegroom to our first parents, when the Almighty himself took the cup of blessing and spoke the benediction. The Baptist represents himself as standing in the same relation to Jesus. [source]
John 2:9 Tasted [εγευσατο]
First aorist middle indicative of γευομαι — geuomai As it was his function to do. The water now become wine Accusative case, though the genitive also occurs with γευομαι — geuomai Perfect passive participle of γινομαι — ginomai and οινον — oinon predicative accusative. The tablemaster knew nothing of the miracle, “whence it was” The servants knew the source of the water, but not the power that made the wine. Calleth the bridegroom As apparently responsible for the supply of the wine (thou hast kept τετηρηκας — tetērēkas). See Matthew 9:15 for νυμπιος — numphios When men have drunk freely Indefinite temporal clause with οταν — hotan and first aorist passive subjunctive of μετυσκω — methuskō The verb does not mean that these guests are now drunk, but that this is a common custom to put “the worse” But this fact does not mean that today Jesus would approve the modern liquor trade with its damnable influences. The law of love expounded by Paul in 1Cor 8-10 and in Rom 14, 15 teaches modern Christians to be willing gladly to give up what they see causes so many to stumble into sin. [source]
Romans 11:13 Inasmuch then [επ οσον μεν ουν]
Not temporal, quamdiu, “so long as” (Matthew 9:15), but qualitative quatenus “in so far then as” (Matthew 25:40). I glorify my ministry (την διακονιαν μου δοχαζω — tēn diakonian mou doxazō). As apostle to the Gentiles (ετνων αποστολος — ethnōn apostolos objective genitive). Would that every minister of Christ glorified his ministry. [source]
2 Peter 1:13 So long as [επ οσον]
For this phrase see Matthew 9:15; Romans 11:13.Tabernacle (σκηνωματι — skēnōmati). Old word, in literal sense in Deuteronomy 33:18 for the usual σκηνη — skēnē (Peter‘s word at the Transfiguration, Mark 9:5), earliest use (in N.T. only here, 2 Peter 1:14; Acts 7:46 of the tabernacle of the covenant) in this metaphorical sense of life as a pilgrimage (1 Peter 1:1; 1 Peter 2:11), though Paul has σκηνος — skēnos so in 2 Corinthians 5:1, 2 Corinthians 5:4. Peter feels the nearness of death and the urgency upon him.To stir you up Present active infinitive of διεγειρω — diegeirō late (Arist., Hippocr., Herodian, papyri), perfective Old word, from υπομιμνησκω — hupomimnēskō (2 Peter 1:12), in N.T. only here, 2 Peter 3:1; 2 Timothy 1:5. “By way of reminding you.” [source]
Revelation 19:7 The marriage of the Lamb []
For the figure, compare Isaiah 54:1-8; Ezekiel 16:7-14; Hosea 2:19; Matthew 9:15; John 3:29; Ephesians 5:25. [source]
Revelation 19:7 Let us give [δωμεν]
Second aorist active subjunctive of διδωμι — didōmi but A reads δωσομεν — dōsomen (future active) and P δωσωμεν — dōsōmen If the future indicative is read, the tone is changed from exhortation to declaration (we shall give glory unto him).The marriage of the Lamb (ο γαμος του αρνιου — ho gamos tou arniou). In the O.T. God is the Bridegroom of Israel (Hosea 2:16; Isaiah 54:6; Ezekiel 16:7.). In the N.T. Christ is the Bridegroom of the Kingdom (the universal spiritual church as seen by Paul, 2 Corinthians 11:2; Ephesians 5:25., and by John in Revelation 3:20; Revelation 19:7, Revelation 19:9; Revelation 21:2, Revelation 21:9; Revelation 22:17. In the Gospels Christ appears as the Bridegroom (Mark 2:19.; Matthew 9:15; Luke 5:34.; Matthew 22:2-14). The figure of γαμος — gamos occurs in John 3:29. Three metaphors of women appear in the Apocalypse (the Mother in chapter Rev 12, the Harlot in Rev 17-19, and the Bride of Christ here to the end). “The first and third present the Church under two different aspects of her life, while the second answers to her great rival and enemy” (Swete).Is come Prophetic aorist, come at last.Made herself ready (ητοιμασεν εαυτην — hētoimasen heautēn). First aorist active indicative of ετοιμαζω — hetoimazō and the reflexive pronoun. See Revelation 22:2 for ητοιμασμενην ως νυμπην — hētoimasmenēn hōs numphēn (prepared as a bride). There is something for her to do (1 John 3:3; Judges 1:21; 2 Corinthians 7:1), but the chief preparation is the act of Christ (Ephesians 5:25.). [source]
Revelation 19:7 The marriage of the Lamb [ο γαμος του αρνιου]
In the O.T. God is the Bridegroom of Israel (Hosea 2:16; Isaiah 54:6; Ezekiel 16:7.). In the N.T. Christ is the Bridegroom of the Kingdom (the universal spiritual church as seen by Paul, 2 Corinthians 11:2; Ephesians 5:25., and by John in Revelation 3:20; Revelation 19:7, Revelation 19:9; Revelation 21:2, Revelation 21:9; Revelation 22:17. In the Gospels Christ appears as the Bridegroom (Mark 2:19.; Matthew 9:15; Luke 5:34.; John 3:29). The figure of γαμος — gamos occurs in Matthew 22:2-14. Three metaphors of women appear in the Apocalypse (the Mother in chapter Rev 12, the Harlot in Rev 17-19, and the Bride of Christ here to the end). “The first and third present the Church under two different aspects of her life, while the second answers to her great rival and enemy” (Swete). [source]

What do the individual words in Matthew 9:15 mean?

And said to them - Jesus Not can the sons of the bridechamber mourn as long as with them is the bridegroom Will come however days when shall have been taken away from then they will fast
Καὶ εἶπεν αὐτοῖς Ἰησοῦς Μὴ δύνανται οἱ υἱοὶ τοῦ νυμφῶνος πενθεῖν ἐφ’ ὅσον μετ’ αὐτῶν ἐστιν νυμφίος ἐλεύσονται δὲ ἡμέραι ὅταν ἀπαρθῇ ἀπ’ τότε νηστεύσουσιν

εἶπεν  said 
Parse: Verb, Aorist Indicative Active, 3rd Person Singular
Root: λέγω  
Sense: to speak, say.
αὐτοῖς  to  them 
Parse: Personal / Possessive Pronoun, Dative Masculine 3rd Person Plural
Root: αὐτός  
Sense: himself, herself, themselves, itself.
  - 
Parse: Article, Nominative Masculine Singular
Root:  
Sense: this, that, these, etc.
Ἰησοῦς  Jesus 
Parse: Noun, Nominative Masculine Singular
Root: Ἰησοῦς  
Sense: Joshua was the famous captain of the Israelites, Moses’ successor.
δύνανται  can 
Parse: Verb, Present Indicative Middle or Passive, 3rd Person Plural
Root: δύναμαι  
Sense: to be able, have power whether by virtue of one’s own ability and resources, or of a state of mind, or through favourable circumstances, or by permission of law or custom.
υἱοὶ  sons 
Parse: Noun, Nominative Masculine Plural
Root: υἱός  
Sense: a son.
τοῦ  of  the 
Parse: Article, Genitive Masculine Singular
Root:  
Sense: this, that, these, etc.
νυμφῶνος  bridechamber 
Parse: Noun, Genitive Masculine Singular
Root: νυμφών  
Sense: the chamber containing the bridal bed, the bridal chamber.
πενθεῖν  mourn 
Parse: Verb, Present Infinitive Active
Root: πενθέω  
Sense: to mourn.
ὅσον  long  as 
Parse: Personal / Relative Pronoun, Accusative Masculine Singular
Root: ὅσος  
Sense: as great as, as far as, how much, how many, whoever.
νυμφίος  bridegroom 
Parse: Noun, Nominative Masculine Singular
Root: νυμφίος  
Sense: a bridegroom.
ἐλεύσονται  Will  come 
Parse: Verb, Future Indicative Middle, 3rd Person Plural
Root: ἔρχομαι  
Sense: to come.
δὲ  however 
Parse: Conjunction
Root: δέ  
Sense: but, moreover, and, etc.
ἡμέραι  days 
Parse: Noun, Nominative Feminine Plural
Root: ἡμέρα  
Sense: the day, used of the natural day, or the interval between sunrise and sunset, as distinguished from and contrasted with the night.
ἀπαρθῇ  shall  have  been  taken  away 
Parse: Verb, Aorist Subjunctive Passive, 3rd Person Singular
Root: ἀπαίρω  
Sense: to lift off, take or carry away.
νηστεύσουσιν  they  will  fast 
Parse: Verb, Future Indicative Active, 3rd Person Plural
Root: νηστεύω  
Sense: to abstain as a religious exercise from food and drink: either entirely, if the fast lasted but a single day, or from customary and choice nourishment, if it continued several days.